A number of years ago I knew a young man whose parents were wealthy ranchers in Texas. Their son apparently had no aspirations to join the family ranching affairs so he moved to Arizona where he lived comfortably (at least monetarily) without working. That seems like something everyone would want – no work, no responsibilities and young enough to enjoy the freedom. But, days are long when there is no purpose, so he filled them with stops at various watering holes in the area.
One very nice restaurant had one of those revolving doors that we so seldom see. Having made a few stops already, he approached the door, pushed on it and proceeded to follow the door’s path which made the full circle and deposited him back outside where he immediately got in his car and drove off. Unfortunately, he wasn’t sober enough to realize he hadn’t yet been in this establishment. That story was repeated by all who knew him to much laughter, though it was actually very sad.
Truth be told, life is like a revolving door, or so it seems at times. We have situations in our lives and poof, they change and we move on to another situation. One of the biggest and most obvious issue involves the people in our lives. They come and they go. We have family or friends with whom we have a close and meaningful relationship and then they’re gone. Maybe there are new friends that come into our lives or new family members are born or arrive as through marriage.
No one knows just how long any relationship will be available in our lives. Each and every moment is precious. That doesn’t mean that we smother those we hold dear. But, it may give us pause as to how valuable each one is. At the very least, we might tell them how special they are while we still have them. Otherwise, we’ll spin through that revolving door and they might be gone.
Who comes to mind that you consider special and appreciate having in your life?
“…let us love one another…” (1 John 4:7)
Hence, that is why we are leaving for the midwest and east coast this summer…family, great grand babies and friends.
How I relate!!
Thank you Teri, for extending friendship to me!! May is almost gone and I missed your birthday!!! I trust it was good. Missing our face to face visits.🥰
When I think about it those relationships are countless! We can get caught in a routine and neglect relationships! At least I can. May we serve one another and make a point to connect! Thanks, Teri!
Totally agree how relationships come and go as we go thru life. Even with those closest to us. Good advice. Looking for that grand reunion. Meanwhile treasure the moments and people.
Amen! Life is so very precious:-)
People come and go through the revolving door of our lives. Best savor them while we have them and thank God for them.